If you suspect your loved one may have dementia, or is displaying the described signs and symptoms, you should get them diagnosed and treated.
However, starting a conversation with someone on the issue of memory loss and possibly dementia may require sensitive consideration. Often, someone experiencing the signs and symptoms of dementia may feel worried, helpless or in denial.
To encourage someone to talk when you are worried about how their memory loss has affected them, you can:
- Have the conversation in a familiar and relaxing place.
- Cite examples of their behaviour to initiate awareness.
- Have a frank conversation to discuss their needs and issues.
You do not need to get the person to agree to visit a doctor for a diagnosis in just one session. This is a difficult development to process, so it may take some time for the person to accept it.
Here are some questions that you may use to start the conversation:
- You seem worried; how can I help?
- You don't seem yourself today, how are you feeling?
- Are you ok? You seem to be concerned about something.
Being diagnosed with dementia may come as a surprise to someone at first. However, with a clear diagnosis, persons living with dementia can get the information and support needed to manage the symptoms.
Although there is currently no cure for dementia, early treatment and management makes it possible to slow down the rate of deterioration.
Depending on your loved one’ss comfort level, sharing concerns with family members early in the conversation can:
- Coax your loved one to obtain a diagnosis and seek support.
- Prepare family members early for the caregiving role.
- Help both yourself and your loved one plan for the future ahead.
